The Get a Handle on It! Session:

We will build the foundation for an empowered you and a bright future. Together we will create solutions that maintain the family instead of destroy the family. You will leave this session with a divorce profile, checklists, and other resources that meet your particular needs and situation.

Get a Handle on It! Session

What is a Get a Handle on It! Session?

We will build the foundation for an empowered you and a bright future. Together we will create solutions that maintain the family instead of destroy the family. You will leave this session with a divorce profile, checklists, and other resources that meet your particular needs and situation.

Who is the Get a Handle on It! Session for?

The Get a Handle on It! Session is for individuals who are…

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Thinking

    • I’m never going to make it through this. 
    • Now my dream life is never going to come true.
    • I can’t believe I feel relieved.
    • Why did “he/she” do this to me?
    • Is this the same person I married?
    • Will I die alone?
    • Will I ever be happy again?
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Have the challenges of

    • Confusion
    • Fear
    • Guilt
    • Anger
    • Depression
    • Worry
    • Shame
    • Grief over the loss of a relationship

      Whatever you might be feeling is ok. Everyone handles marital conflict differently.

Wanting

  • Less stress, confusion, and isolation.
  • More support, empowerment, knowledge, and control.
  • A vision of a future with a “new normal.”
  • Empowerment to shift your mindset from only feeling the pain of divorce to seeing the personal growth opportunity it has to offer you.

All new clients begin with a 90-min Get A Handle On It! Session.

If you would like to…

  • Sort through your thoughts and emotions
  • Organize some of the critical logistics
  • Clarify your wants and needs
  • Answer your questions
  • Create a preliminary plan
  • Develop simple action steps

…then the Get a Handle on It! Session is for YOU

How It Works

I will utilize both my legal and psychological experience and education to guide you in matters like:

  • developing a preliminary plan
  • untangling the confusion of the divorce process
  • expressing your emotions with someone who understands
  • identifying and assessing your options
  • understanding when and what you need an attorney for
  • understanding how to choose your attorney and how to communicate with them
  • learning options for minimizing the costs of divorce
  • learning to identify the warning signs of an unhealthy relationship

I’ll offer you tools for improving your communication with your husband/wife.

I’ll teach you techniques that will limit the damage to your children and help them get through this time with minimal negative effect.

I’ll connect you with other supportive professional resourcesincluding lawyers, mortgage companies, accountants, realtors, etc.

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Common Topics of Discussion

    • I think I still love him/her.
    • We can’t speak to each other without arguing, yelling, etc.
    • We’re pretending to be married when we don’t feel married.
    • Everyone else thinks we’re happy, but we’re not.
    • I have no one to talk to about this.
    • I have religious or spiritual conflict about divorce.
    • My children and I are living in a toxic environment.
    • Could things change for the better, or is it only going to get worse?
    • Is my marriage worth fighting for?
    • How will I financially support myself?
    • Is he/she going to try and screw me over?
    • What will people think of me?
    • How am I supposed to tell my kids about this?
    • How can I think straight and take care of myself?
    • How can I make good decisions?
    • Are my marital problems normal or a sign that something is wrong?
    • Is our lack of intimacy causing the issues in our marriage?

During the Session, We Will

    • Help you understand both the law and the emotions of divorce.
    • Create your individual divorce profile because every person’s situation is unique.
    • Look at all that your heart is holding.
    • Look at all that your mind is thinking.
    • Lay everything out on the table.
    • Begin to sort through it and make sense of it all.
    • Talk about what you are currently facing.
    • Determine next steps.
    • Find clarity.
    • Talk about the dreams you have for your future.
    • Figure out if it is the right time to begin a coaching, mediation, or parenting services package.

Get a Handle on It! Session Cost: 

$250 paid in full

(due upon scheduling via credit card or cash)

Schedule Your Get a Handle on It! Session Now

LIVE THE LIFE YOU HAVE IMAGINED…

Henry David Thoreau