Therapeutic Relationship Coaching
In person in Scottsdale Arizona or
Via Video Conferencing.
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Learn how to:
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Navigate disagreements in a healthy way,Â
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Build trust, connection and collaboration
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Embrace a mindset of working together as a team,
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Problem-solve together, and
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Co-create the life of your dreams.Â
With a serious commitment to the work we will do together, there is an excellent chance that the relationship will wind up in a stronger place than it’s ever been in before.
Some issues we may address are:
- conflict resolution,
- communication,
- money and finances,
- sex and intimacy issues,
- fighting and anger issues,
- gender roles,
- addiction,
- in-law struggles,
- religion,
- values,
- pregnancy,
- and many more.
We’ll address everything that you’re feeling, as well as your concerns, and we’ll collaboratively have a plan and set goals to get the relationship back on track.
  Therapeutic Coaching for CouplesÂ
  For partners seeking:
 to heal past wounds,
 obtain new tools and skills for working through conflict,
 gain a deeper connection, and
 grow intimacy balanced with autonomy.
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 Therapeutic Couples Coaching is a holistic, integrative, custom tailored approach blending:
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), which focuses on improving the attachment and bond between partners. Coaching helps the couple understand and change patterns that lead to feelings of disconnection.
- The Gottman Method, which addresses areas of conflict and equips each person in the couple with problem-solving skills to improve friendship and intimacy.
- Wachtel’s approach, which involves focusing on positive aspects of the relationship. It is a strength-based approach that emphasizes self-reflection rather than blame.
- Psychodynamic couples therapy, which examines underlying hopes and fears that drive each person in the relationship. This approach helps the couple to understand one another better and improve the relationship dynamic.
- Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for couples involves identifying and altering thought patterns that cause conflict so that it can be resolved. Much like individual CBT, it focuses on changing cognitive distortions and reframing perspectives.
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Thinking of love as something to fall into can be limiting.
What if, after falling in love, we could commit to “rising in love”.
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Rising in love encourages a mindset of growth, maturity and learning.
Instead of love being a state that we fall into and can easily fall out of, it is something that is nurtured and built upon. Intimacy is a deep emotional experience of loving connection. We can learn to create, recreate and sustain intimacy.
To rise in love treats love as fluid; there isn’t a black-and-white trajectory of being either in or out of love, but rather recognition that feelings vary; waning love doesn’t necessarily have to mean a doomed relationship. We can realign our attitudes and beliefs about love, relationships, marriage and family. We can learn to change ineffective behaviors that diminish our intimacy with each other to behaviors and skills that increase intimacy and enhance our connection.
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Meaningfully rising in love involves partnering to create a life that could not have been possible with either partner alone and together is more than the sum of each individual effort.
Rising in love never requires you to surrender your autonomy for intimacy or self-empowerment for love.
Rising in love means remaining centered in Self while creatively sharing and merging with the energies of your partner.
Just imagine what your life would be like if...
- You and your partner could see each other's point of view and understand each others hopes and fears.
- You and your partner could take the time to figure out exactly what you expect from each other and your partnership, and come to an agreement about what you want for your future together.
- You and your partner could create a new, unified language that leaves each person feeling seen, heard, validated, and hopeful about the future
- You and your partner had a road map and coping skills in place to help you and your partner get through challenging times, deal with stress, anger, sadness, or any other emotion.
- You could get back that connection you both crave and miss. Working on communication and respect  advances intimacy. When we feel loved and understood, we’re more in tune with each other and feel more connected.Â
Hi, I'm Dr. Jodi Peary
My desire in helping couples with therapeutic couples coaching is to foster hope and empowerment to my clients as individuals and as a couple.
I help my clients identify the strengths they already possess individually and as a couple and bridge paths to mutual understanding and validation. Each partner uncovers their innate capacity to be the best they can be, and to experience the greatest joy and fulfillment possible in their lives.
 I believe that my clients are the experts on their lives. I seek to empower the couples I work with, rather than needing to be the expert on their lives.
Therapeutic Couple's Coaching is for you if...
- You are ready to exchange relationship restraining practices for relationship promoting practices.Â
Each partner will learn and evolve in their knowledge of self, emotional literacy, and emotional efficacy.
- You long for more fairness in your relationship. Having a safe space to voice feelings of resentment and difficult matters, enables you and your partner to renegotiate how you can both feel equity in what you give and what you receive while fully appreciating the unique contributions of each other.
- You could benefit from support in your desire to limit struggling with the effects of codependency. Our work together will help each partner acknowledge the primary emotions they experience during the good and the more difficult times enabling you to slow down and recognize the feelings and fears underlying interaction patterns.Â
READY FOR THE TRANSFORMATION?
A more fulfilling relationship is just around the corner
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