Constructive Conflict Isn't An Oxymoron. Some CoParent Conflict is OK
When it comes to the impact of coparenting conflict on children, there is a tendency to lump all conflict together in one heap and label it a villain of parental and, especially, child well-being.
When creating and validating conflict management tools in research on coparenting, conflict was often seen as a one dimensional construct that predicts family dysfunction and negative impacts on children's mental health. However, this is an oversimplification.
Constructive and destructive conflict have different effects on the family and on children.
It is destructive conflict that is harmful. That not all conflict is harmful is good news because it is unrealistic to set a goal of "No Conflict."
A goal of constructive conflict is attainable.
Transforming destructive conflict into constructive conflict can be motivated by the knowledge that it does not lead to harmful effects on children and that it increases the possibility for win-win solutions on tough problems...
Dr. Jodi Peary
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