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The Luminous Edge of Autumn

Autumn teaches us the beauty of letting go. 
Before their is growth, there must be release. 
 

"I wish I knew the beauty of leaves falling. To whom are we beautiful as we go?"

Jeffers

Autumn is a time of transition and this makes the experience of autumn bittersweet for many.

During times of transition, self-compassion practices become even more important. This means treating ourselves with the same kindness, care, and understanding that we’d offer a dear friend during times of difficulty or change. 

 

Self-compassion has three core components:

self-kindness,

common humanity,

and mindfulness.

 

Self-Kindness

Self-kindness involves treating ourselves like a dear friend.

Common Humanity

Common humanity is the recognition that suffering is part of the shared human experience—something we all go through.

Mindfulness

Mindfulness asks to stay present with what we are experiencing. We stay with the calm, the pain, the joy, the fear, the...

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The 5 Minute 5 Step Path to Minimizing Anxiety

An Uncomplicated Life; a seemingly unattainable goal.

A life with out anxiety: unimaginable if the two are synonymous with each other.

One practice to minimize anxiety and achieve an uncomplicated life: Mindfulness

Think of all that you have done in your life.

All that you have overcome.

All you have accomplished.

I promise you: YOU HAVE IT IN YOU TO MAKE A MINDFULNESS PRACTICE A PART OF EVERYDAY OF YOUR LIFE.

In 5 minutes a day you will learn to live mindfully by practicing the following.

But first:
There is no wrong way to do this!


1.Sit in a comfortable spot. Begin your mindfulness practice by focusing on your breath, it will help ground you for the session. Focus on drawing your breath in and exhaling it out. Just do it. Everyone has wandering thoughts while doing this. It's OK. It's a part of the journey.


(Are you a mantra aficionado? Some people find it useful to use a mantra to focus on: That is a word or phrase that you say aloud and/or chant. It can be ‘Om’,...

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Five simple mindfulness tips to employ today to shift from high-conflict to Enlightened CoParenting

Five simple mindfulness practices that you can employ today to shift from high-conflict to Enlightened CoParenting:

1. Remain attuned to subtle changes in your children’s behavior.

Responding to a highly emotional child with patience is much easier to do when a child is not completely overwhelmed by what is bothering them.

By noticing subtle changes in your child’s behavior you gain the opportunity to address the challenges your child is experiencing before those challenges become overwhelming to them. 

When problems feel approachable to children and approachable to us we are better situated to solve them with less anxiety along the way.

2.Take the time and make space for learning how your child is perceiving the many changes that separation and divorce brings. 

Doing so builds our empathy muscle.

Even if you are facing the lengthy to-do list your lawyer gave you, trying to translate  financial information, or engaging confronting other legal...

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The Quickest Way to Begin Trusting Yourself Again After Divorce

Trusting ourselves to have healthy relationships in the future is hard after divorce. Understanding why things happened a certain way is not always possible.

If we do not know why something happened how can we know it won’t happen again?
 
Penelope (a client, name changed) wondered, “How did I fall for that guy? Why did I trust him?” “My friends didn’t trust him, but they never told me! When I asked them why, they just said you were so happy, and we didn’t want to ruin it for you!” 
 
During our session, we talked about how her decisions were made from a place of kindness, generosity, and goodness inside of her. This did not melt away Penelope’s concern.
 
“If that is so, how do I stop from ending up like this again?” “How can I ever trust myself?”
 
We talked about how mindfulness, in a compassionate way, of what we are thinking and feeling leads to clarity of mind and with clarity...
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